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No more land border crossings. No more visa applications. No more haggling over small purchases, no more scams to dodge. No more hotels to research or train tickets to book, and not very many more blog entries.

Finally, we’ve worn out two out of three of our iPods and used up nearly all of the memory on our laptop. Our whites are all gray, our ends are all bleached, our backpacks are looking weathered and the soles of our shoes are worn flat. We’ve taken all our malaria pills (just about), used up all our Band-Aids, flown our last flight and spent all our money.

We’re coming home scruffy, ill-clothed, seasoned and rejuvenated, sad that the trip is over but happy to lay eyes on the familiar modern world again and stay in one place for a while.

The trip will live on as a family legend, not just a vacation but something more on the scale of an epic accomplishment. It was by turns exhilarating, exhausting, fascinating, trying, thrilling, entertaining, frustrating, surprising and, very occasionally, death-defying. It was a wild ride, a fabulous adventure and often also a grand test of our immune systems, patience and sense of humour.

When it was good, it was the best decision we’d ever made, and when it was not, it could seem like a bizarre kind of self-imposed exile. When the kids were managing beautifully and the travelling was easy, we thought about what excellent parents we were for showing them the world and spending so much time in their company: 24/7 for 6.5 months. It was harder to be smug when they fought non-stop, resisted home-schooling, threw up on their shoes and missed their friends. And when occasionally we found ourselves in physically dangerous situations with them, we were appalled at the poor judgment that had caused us to drag them halfway around the world just so they could possibly die in a fiery bus or motorcycle crash.

It was a crazy, unforgettable experience that we’re amazed and pleased to have shared and survived, and so lucky to have enjoyed.

In the end, we visited eight countries, including more than 45 cities or towns. Between us we read more than 150 books in the 180 days we were gone. We had six months to learn what we could about each place we visited, but that time also gave us the luxury to learn about anything else that interested us, including each other. It also gave us the benefit of perspective on the lives we had left behind and would be returning to. It was half a year of new experiences, new languages, new friends and family bonding.

I suppose our take on the end of the trip is best summed up by Chloe's ambivalence. “I don’t want the trip to end,” she said wistfully the other day. “But on the other hand, I’m really looking forward to going home. I guess that means I don’t want to go anywhere!”

Or maybe it’s best to end on a positive note. Ciaran, never the sentimental type, is looking at it this way. “I’m really looking forward to going home,” he said the other day with great enthusiasm. “Want to know why? It’s because of our three-storey house! We won’t all have to share a small hotel room anymore! And I won’t have to use bottled water to brush my teeth! And it’s been way too long since I ate some of Grandpa Kip’s barbecued chicken!”

Well, there you have it.

Posted by The Rymans 06:25 Archived in Canada Tagged family_travel

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My sentiments exactly about the whole parenting part.

by McNouye

We have really enjoyed reading about your family adventure!!! I love the last few entries - how you managed to highlight the best and worst -- inspirational!! We are a Seattle Family with kids 9 & 11 planning a 13 month trip (Starting July 2012) much in SE Asia -- so your advice is priceless to us! If you want to connect with us and/or follow our blog we are www.anvl.travellerspoint.com
Thanks!!

by annevl

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